“"Good evening! Ladies and Gentlemen:
Today is Lena and David`s Special day ,Thank you all for coming to this wonderful wedding reception！
As a father,I am very Pleased with my daughter `s mother to have seen her grow up throughout the years, from kindergarten to University and to become a lawyer and until now - getting married.
She is my greatest concern,and She is my greatest pride,I hand her to my son in law David today,I hope David can love her dearly,also they love each other ，and create a beautiful family. Please enjoy the food, if it is not ok,please forgive us.finally,I wish you all good health and success!Thank you！
Today is Lena and David`s Special day ,Thank you all for coming to this wonderful wedding reception！
As a father,I am very Pleased with my daughter `s mother to have seen her grow up throughout the years, from kindergarten to University and to become a lawyer and until now - getting married.
She is my greatest concern,and She is my greatest pride,I hand her to my son in law David today,I hope David can love her dearly,also they love each other ，and create a beautiful family. Please enjoy the food, if it is not ok,please forgive us.finally,I wish you all good health and success!Thank you！
尊敬的來賓：
大家晚上好！今天是小女出閣之喜，感謝大家撥冗出席今晚這個結婚喜宴。首先要感謝在座的所有僑領`朋友們的光臨，其中有年己九十的黃禮叔`八十多歲的黃子成叔、洪紹平會長、鄧華貴會長、翁光雄會長、方南僑會長、張齊清監事長、游啟慶前秘書長、巫輔光前監事長、多位副會長、秘書、理事及挚友任冠光、周瑞霞、楊勝、葉從進、葉從堅、黃世桂、呂志揚、洪浩華、邢福英、杜紹漢、侯國書等，曉英小學期間周末中文學校校長梁棠先生，曉英現在工作的律師行洋人老板、同事以及跟我親如好友的家庭醫生---吳寶星醫師等貴賓的光臨，謝謝你們。 在這裡也要感謝遠道而來的親友：包括來自悉尼的許南翔`許慧賢伉儷，北澳達爾文蕭漢傑`蕭漢明賢昆仲，美國加州周紹昌伉儷，周惠昌及外甥，法國巴黎二弟黃潮光，還有男方家長在瑞士及新西蘭的親人等也出席這個婚宴。
作為父親，我很高興能跟女兒的媽媽陪著愛女一起成長，從她讀幼兒園到大學畢業`到當上律師，直到現在結婚了，女兒一直是我最大的牽掛，也是我最大的驕傲。今天我把她交給女婿林大衛，希望大衛能疼惜她，倆人相親相愛，創造一個美好的家庭。 由於婚禮准備倉卒，若有招待不周的地方，請多多包涵。最後祝大家身體健康，事業成功`家庭美滿。謝謝大家！Thank you very much！”
這是我在上週六女兒婚禮上講話的全文。
女兒跟我關係一貫很融洽、很貼心。為了她我幾乎愿意把心掏出來。女兒也深知老爸疼她，從不讓我失望過。原先我並不打算在酒樓擺酒席，由于女婿、女兒、對手親家的堅持，我改變初衷。回溯數月前，女兒告訴我：
“爸，我的結婚晚宴，您最多只能請120位您的好友參加，因為名額有限，大偉父母親的親友和我的舊同學、朋友、同事也很多。真是“風水輪流轉” ， “兒大兒之世界”結果我只好“乖乖” 照辦了。
那天下午，當我牽著愛女的手，走在花園的小徑上，被百多位親朋好友羡慕、期待、幸福的眼光包圍著；當著証婚人--- 一位年約七十歲的正地道洋人面前，我才感覺到女兒真的長大了，而我也漸漸老了。祝願女兒找到她真正的幸福。她比我這一代及她祖父那一代幸福多了！
